There came a time when the risk to remain tight in the bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.
~Anaïs Nin
I am learning in life that sometimes it uses less energy to be a doer instead of thinking about things and letting the weight of their consequences be a burden for days.
I am learning that patience really is a virtue and sometimes its quality isn't revealed until we try being patient for other people when they are not.
I am learning that love has absolutely nothing to do with possession, partnership, or reciprocation.
I am learning that self discovery at any age is just an excuse to try new things.
This has been an exciting week at many levels. I'm thankful for each day that passed and the joy that was realized. This weekend Kristin moves out and Monday I start a new part-time job. I'm happy to anticipate the fall season - it is sure to be a time of change and an opportunity to turn the bittersweetness of an empty nest into a place of respite and contemplation. There are adventures around the corner, I can feel it.
8 comments:
I feel for you. REALLY. School starts here soon as well and it will be emptier than it has been, it's lonely but the joy of reunion is all the more exciting.
one of my favorite quotes.....one my mama sent to jamie during a trying time in her life....thank you for its message today.
i love your thoughts....and can relate to many....of course we have had an empty nest for some time now (well....it usually is full of grandbabies)....but you know what i mean.....i will be thinking of you....i know it brings a myriad of feeling and thoughts, but know you will enjoy what it brings also....
please tell us more about your part time job!!! hope it is something you will enjoy.....i know you will do an awesome job at whatever it is!!!
hugs and love joni,
kimberly
I hope the future brings you much joy, peace and understanding, Joni. My nest has been empty for quite some time, as you can imagine, but each day I feel grateful for what was, and what is to be. :)
I hear that life Is an adventure not to be missed...It's SO hard to walk forward and not look back...Sending you a big hug Joni!!!(((((HUG)))))
Wonderful post Miz Joni!
hoping all went well with the move, dear joni....and that you enjoyed your first day at your new job....let us know how things are going!
love,
kimberly
A time to enjoy company, a time to enjoy being on your own...!!
Yes, I have enjoyed having Jo and family back for a family wedding, but was time for me to come back and enjoy some quiet and let them enjoy their other relatives.
Of course I also get to play tennis. But attending a funeral later in the week for a friend whose sudden passing has made us somewhat sad (but also relieved, as he had motor neurone disease).
Enjoy your empty nest...they will be back often to visit I am sure...and enjoy your part time career...very exciting for you, Joni!
I never thought about patience in the way you put it, but I see my self having more patience when one of my co-workers looses hers over small things that really don't matter.
Wonderful thoughts and post. Have a great week!
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